The Cows Milk Myth


The myth that cow’s milk, and dairy are essential for a healthy diet, is so ingrained in Western Civilisation, that there are few of us who question the “wisdom” of weaning a child from the breast to a cup of cows milk.  What was it that convinced us that the milk from another animal was equally good for our children, as the milk from their mothers…?

During the peak of British colonisiation, it was policy to establish infant feeding clinics, with the intention of providing health care to native babies. What this meant was, long term breastfeeding was discouraged, routines were encouraged, and the whole process was detrimental to breastfeeding.  It also meant that colonised countries, all of a sudden had a “need” for artifical baby formula, to nourish the native infants, who’d been weaned.

Colonised countries were a new and lucrative export market for western dairy products – and the idea that milk was an essential part of one’s diet, slowly became ingrained.

Considering that humans, are the only species that consume the milk of another animal, I’m led to question what the natural alternative of cow’s milk is, in non dairy farming countries.

Let’s examine a few alternative sources of calcium:

Whole Food Sources Serving Calcium (mg)
Sardines 3 ounces 372
Chinese cabbage cooked 1/2 cup 239
Spinach cooked 1/2 cup 230
Rhubarb cooked 1/2 cup 174
Wild salmon canned with bones 3 ounces 167
Kale cooked 1 cup 122
White beans cooked 1/2 cup 113
Bok choy cooked 1/2 cup 79
Broccoli cooked 1 cup 70
Pinto beans cooked 1/2 cup 45
Red beans cooked 1/2 cup 41

How is it that many countries throughout the world have popluations of healthy children and adults, but don’t rely on dairy farming? And why is it that many asian races, are lactose intolerant – and can’t consume cows milk at all…?

Famous Paedatrician, Dr Spock has now suggested that cow’s milk is for baby cows, and that human babies ought to be breastfed, while older children eat non-dairy alternatives.

All about Mastitis


Mastitis, as the “itis” part in it suggests is the inflamation around a clogged milk duct. It can remain simply as inflamation, or left untreated progress to infectious Mastitis. Symptoms include:

  • Pain, like a clogged milk duct
  • Reddness and tenderness around the site
  • Flu like symtoms
  • Chills, fever of 38.5 c or more
  • General malaise

To treat mastitis, it’s best caught early, at the very first onset of symtoms. The rule of thumb is to nurse frequently, and empty the breast, and rest. Heat may offer some relief, and help move on any clogging in the milk duct.

  • Gentle massage in the shower
  • Nurse frequently, lying down if it’s more comforable
  • Take time off from everything other than caring for you and baby. ASK for help!

DO NOT stop nursing, if anything nurse more frequently!

If your mik duct is clogged, you can try gentle massage to help move it on.

If symtoms persist more than 24-48 hours, and fever and malaise develop you can speak to your practitioner about antibiotics – However, most mastitis is non infectious – and antibiotics will be ineffective, unless infection occurs.

A great article on managing mastitis, along with natural treatment techniques is available here

Does the media have a responsibility to nursing mothers.


The media, are the disseminators of information. And as such, have a responsibility to their readers to promote truth, and accurate information, in the articles they publish.

So why is it, that mothers are still being told that formula is an adequate substitute for breastmilk, as though it’s simply an alternative – not a choice that warrants research, and a lot of soul searching before a decision is made.

The irksome truth of it is, there is a fine line betwen what is truth, and what is waylaid information. For example, an article detailing the benefits of artificial baby milk – may well be truthful, however it doesn’t have to contain the risks of artificial baby milk, nor does it have to report the benefits of breastfeeding. So effectively, the said article would be almost entirely misleading.

How do articles that are so misleading even find a place in the media? The answer to that is simple. And it begins and ends with money. The artificial baby milk industry is a multi billion dollar a year industry, and some of that revenue is well invested in advertising and editorial. Not to mention, in samples distributed through hospitals, doctors surgeries, and early childhood clinics.

It is almost no wonder that Artificial Baby Milk, is so widely accepted as the norm in the media, and promoted as such to the audiences of these channels.

What I question, is the responsibility to provide accurate and ethical information. In my opinion, allowing any article, suggesting that Artificial Baby Milk, is as good as, or as acceptable as breastmilk, is a grave misnomer on the publisher’s part.

A responsible reporter and publisher, would only disseminate information pertaining to the whole truth. Sadly these types of publications are few and far between.

The whole truth being:

  1. Artificial Baby Milk, is never as good as breastmilk, is never as good as expressed breast millk, and is considered by many authorities  to even be less acceptable than wet nursing.
  2. The only people who benefit from Artificial Baby Milk, are the companies selling it. The babies face the risks of allergies, intolerance, and reduced immunity.

There are of course situtations, where Artificial Baby Milk is a necessary tool. But these situations, are not for the mainstream media to comment on and publicize. They are situations of life and death, where mothers cannot feed, and there is no other alternative.

I rally for the media to promote breastmilk, as the only acceptable infant food – for mothers to be taught how to breastfeed, and supported, encouraged, and rewarded for doing so.

It would be brilliant to see more campaigns like the Be a Star campaign, publicised in the UK. Normalising feeding, and boosting it’s image.

Babies deserve the truth. Women deserve the truth. and the media has the responsiblity on their shoulders to disseminate it.

Breastfeeding Acrobatics


Any breastfeeding mother of a mobile baby, will probably smile a wry smile when you mention breastfeeding acrobatics. At some stage or other – most moms feeding an older baby, have had feet near their ears, bottoms under their chin, and some wild and whacky breastfeeding positions inflicted upon them!

If it’s causing you no pain, and is working for you at home, there’s no reason that you can’t allow the occasional breast feeding acrobatic act – however, if it’s hurting, or you are uncomfortable with it – then establishing some feeding rules might make all the difference:

Clear and gentle communication, to “Nurse Gently” , followed by gentle detachment if your request isn’t followed, is the general reccomended approach.  With my son, we have to preempt acrobatics when we’re outside of the home, by almost constantly telling him to “Keep mummy covered” or “Nurse Gently”  and take “boobie” away if he doesn’t play by the rules.

It took a week of requesting, and following up with boobie removal before the little guy got the idea, but now, when he hears “Nurse Gently” he understands that it’s time to concentrate at the task at hand.

At home, I generally let him have a free for all – the ultimate feeding experience, which has resulted in bottoms in faces, and lots of giggles and  fun. (Breastfeeding is meant to be fun!)

In public, for  the sake of my modesty, we nurse “nicely”.

Tips for managing biting


At some stage or another, most breastfeeding babies will bite. And it hurts. Old wisdom was to bite the child back, to teach them that biting hurts, however as infants, babies can’t distinguish between what is person, and what is chew toy.

So biting back a baby, and  causing them pain, is quite cruel, and ineffective.

Some tips for managing biting:

  • When your baby bites, yelp, and gently detach them from the breast. Explain that mummys aren’t for biting, and ask them to nurse gently. (Detaching them, is enough usually to interrupt the pattern)
  • Offer something cool and nice for them to chew on when they’re not feeding, like a cool flannel, or teething toy.
  • Learn what preempts biting, and gently suggest they “nurse gently” before they bite. If they begin to chomp down, gently detach, and verbalise that mummys aren’t for biting.

Understanding why your baby bites might help you preempt the biting too. Some babies bite at the end of the breastfeed, when the milk is mostly gone, and they’re just playing on the breast. When you notice their suck to swallow ratio getting to more sucks to swallows, they’re getting towards the end of the feed.  Watch to see if his attachment changes, and gently detach before he bites.

Some babies bite when they’re teething- and this is very normal. Offering a substiute teething toy (to your breast) after a bite, or a near bite, with gentle explanation that “Toys are for biting”  will help  – it will take patience though.

KellyMom.com has some great tips on managing your baby’s biting here

Flower Remedies for Breastfeeding


Are you anxious, nervous, stressed? Overtired, overwhelmed? And in over your head.

Welcome to new motherhood. On some days, it can seem like everything is all too much, and the demands of a baby are the last thing you can cope with. If you’re breastfeeding, it can seem all that more inescapable. (Especially if you’re sleep deprived, and still recovering from a tough birth)

A safe way to assist yourself, calm down, and handle the anxiety, and stress of juggling your new family can be flower remedies.

Edmund Bach discovered 38 specific flower remedies for symptoms such as anxiety, and stress – which he believed were the precursors to disease.

Rescue Remedy, is a combination of 5 remedies, available in a cream, pastille, and alcohol free drops. And is a great, natural, and safe solution for when you’re feeling overwhelmed with motherhood and feeding.

  • Impatiens: For those who act and think quickly, and have no patience for what they see as the slowness of others. They often prefer to work alone. Teaches empathy and understanding of and patience with others. We’ve found it very fast-acting in alleviating an impatient attitude and lowering stress.
  • Star of Bethlehem: For trauma and shock, whether experienced recently or in the past. Teaches the ability to recover from traumas and to integrate them into the present life.
  • Cherry Plum: For those who fear losing control of their thoughts and actions and doing things they know are bad for them or which they consider wrong. Teaches trust in one’s spontaneous wisdom and the courage to follow one’s path.
  • Rock Rose: For situations in which one experiences panic or terror.
  • Clematis: For those who find their lives unhappy and withdraw into fantasy worlds. They are ungrounded and indifferent to the details of everyday life. Teaches one to establish a bridge between the physical world and the world of ideas; may foster great creativity. Is also used to bring clarity and alertness to the present moment.
  • There is no substitute, for good support and counselling, but rescue remedy might get you through some of the tougher moments.

    Nipple Care 101


    Breastfeeding

    Looking after your breasts and nipples will help your breastfeeding experience get off on the right foot. Here are some quick tips, to assist you avoid breast and nipple pain:

    1. Practise good attachment – a poorly attached baby, means breastfeeding will hurt, and can result in irreparable damage to your nipples. If you need assistance, consultalt a Lactation consultant (sooner rather than later) if the problem lies with your baby, consider gentle corrective techniques, such as chiropractic
    2. Invest in a good fitting bra. Breastfeeding boobs, need support. Update your bra as your breasts grow or shrink.
    3. Allow your nipples to air dry after each feed. You can express a little milk onto them to assist healing any forming blisters or cracks. (Good attachment ought to help you avoid these to begin with)
    4. Hydrolised Lanolin (ie. Lansinoh) is a good cream for soothing, and helping nipples become supple. (it also makes a great nappy barrier cream, and lipbalm…)
    5. Sunshine helps any minor cracks heal.
    6. Keep a good watch for blocked ducts. If you notice any tenderness, or lumps, massage GENTLY under a hot shower, and if you can’t move the lump along – speak with a lactation consultant (sooner rather than later)
    7. Don’t wear a tight bra to bed. If you need the support, invest in a crop top, or special sleeping bra. (Tight bras, constrict milk ducts, and can cause blockages)

    Remember, if it doesn’t feel right – it probably isn’t. Seek support and help from a professional, and keep asking until you get an answer that helps you.

     

    Photo Credit: Raphael Goetter

    Babywearing and Breastfeeding


    Wearing a sling, pouch, or Mei Tai style baby carrier, might just make your breastfeeding experience more pleasant for mum and bub. Here’s why:

    1. You can carry a baby ‘hands-free’
    2. Carrying a baby can increase a mother’s hormone levels thus encouraging her body to make breastmilk.
    3. It calms a restless, ‘windy’ baby. The upright position against the warm adult body is very soothing. Often babies happily go to sleep.
    4. Your baby will spend less time crying.
    5. You can feed on the go.
    6. When not feeding, your baby is experiencing the world from your point of view, and learning.
    7. It allows for discrete feeding, if you’re nervous.
    8. Constant access to the breast, ensures you produce enough milk, and your baby recieves optimum levels.
    9. You’ll stop people poking their head in on the pram, and stickybeaking on the baby.
    10. You can carry your child in the orthopeadically correct “frog” position - which encourages settling too.
    11. Your child will be more secure, and well adjusted.